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Pulling or Pushing Your Magnets in Life...

  • Writer: Iman Bakhache
    Iman Bakhache
  • Aug 4
  • 2 min read
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When two magnets are aligned correctly, they pull together effortlessly.

Flip one around, and they push apart, no matter how much you try to force them.

Our lives work the same way.

When your thoughts, decisions, and actions are aligned with your core values, everything flows more naturally.


You feel at peace.

You feel grounded.

You make choices that feel right.


But when you live against your values, you will feel like swimming against the current, exhausted and confused.

Core values are the deep principles that guide your life.

They shape what matters most to you.

They are your internal compass.


However, the problem is that most people have never stopped to identify their values. They live on autopilot, influenced by what others want, social pressure, or fear. This leads to inner conflict, burnout, and decisions that feel ‘off’.

Values Elicitation is a coaching process that helps you discover what truly matters to you (not just what you’ve been taught to value), understand why you make certain choices and create alignment between your values, goals, and daily habits.

When your values are clear, decision-making becomes easier. Stress decreases because your actions are congruent with who you are.

When your values are clear, you stop second-guessing yourself, you feel more confident and purposeful as well as attract opportunities that fit your true self.

On the other hand, when they’re unclear, you feel stuck or “lost”, you say yes when you want to say no also, you keep chasing goals that don’t feel fulfilling.

What values do you live by every day?What choices are aligned with those values?What would change in your life if you lived fully in alignment with what matters most?

Find your magnet.

Align your mind, heart, and actions with your core values.


THINK ABOUT IT... 

 


 
 
 

1 Comment


nashbazz68
Aug 05

I agree 100% because when we stay true to ourselves and what we believe, our path unfolds with minimal resistance! Our actions should always reflect what matters to us.

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